During my phone call conversation with Mom, she told me the incident minutes after viewing UPSR result at brother's school. While on the drive back home from brother's school, my 14 year old sister got jealous. (She obtained 3A 2B in her UPSR, despite being top 3 students every year in primary school period). "Not fair," she lamented. " I worked hard compared to him. But he got a better result than mine."
Sibling rivalry.
Mom's comeback left me dumbfounded.
" You gotta know that he's the only one in the siblings that Mom and Dad sent to tuition class in Primary 6. You and your sisters, you all were very smart that we can trust you to do revision and excel in exam."
Sister stayed mute.
"Plus, it's important for a guy to achieve high score in exams. So that he can pick up girls even better. No girl will want to marry a man with bad achievement during their study time. Us girls? We are a natural work-hard species. Follow the life path in a correct way, don't mislead. especially at this young age, and trust me you'll be scoring many more exams not only in your study, but your life in general."
"Plus, you are a very beautiful girl. You have this beauty and the brain quality."
Sister smiled. Nodded. Hugged Mom.
I smiled on the other line hearing Mom's story...
Men, don't start attacking me. Or Mom. Gotta admit you are blessed with smart mind. We are gifted with strong determination and hard work attitude. Else, why are we the one God put to bear the pain of pregnancy and delivery pain?...
oh i so love your mom's every word. rings true u know hahahaha
ReplyDeletecongrats again to your little bro ya!
Em, my mum wouldn't say that but she keeps reminding me that "men must have proper job so that they can support a family"... I guess its the same meaning behind.
ReplyDeleteErrr, us men not dumb, just lazy..hehehhe
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I'd have to agree with Chegu. Your mom's great. She helps your sister rationalise the situation :)
ReplyDeleteMissed reading your blog too Dee... I have been busy last month and haven't been blogwalking that much :)